The fabric of Zooey's life

  • Aug. 22nd, 2009 at 12:13 AM
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First watch this and see how adorable she and her clothes are:





Then listen to the whole song here:

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Cloooothes!

  • May. 7th, 2009 at 12:33 AM
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Okay. Lately I'm trying to scrape up every bit of extra money that I can, so I am coming back to my good old patient LJ readers with... clothes for sale! This is the same stuff I was trying to pawn off on you all sell last month. ;-) However! I have lowered the prices still further. Hey, if I take these things to Plato's Closet, they'll give me a mere pittance (because they are CHEATS), and besides, I think it's fun to sell stuff to friends.

Shipping will be $2.50 for one item (add $1 for each additional item).

Clothing Sale

Anger and forgiveness.

  • Apr. 10th, 2009 at 12:49 AM
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"As with the appearance of light, darkness retreats; so, at the fragrance of humility, all anger and bitterness vanishes."

"The first step toward freedom from anger is to keep the lips silent when the heart is stirred; the next, to keep thoughts silent when the soul is upset; the last, to be totally calm when unclean winds are blowing."

--St. John Climacus, The Ladder of Divine Ascent, Step 8

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"When anyone is disturbed or saddened under the pretext of a good and soul-profiting matter, and is angered against his neighbor, it is evident that this is not according to God: for everything that is of God is peaceful and useful and leads a man to humility and to judging himself."
--St. Feofil, the Fool for Christ

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"For an offense, whatever kind may have been given, one must not only not avenge oneself, but on the contrary must all the more forgive from the heart, even though it may resist this, and must incline the heart by conviction of the word of God: 'If ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses' (Matt. 6:15)."
--St Seraphim of Sarov

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Cloooothes.

  • Apr. 6th, 2009 at 11:47 PM
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Hey, don't forget about my clothing sale! A few items got marked down again. A couple things have already been sold. Check out what's left!

Clothing Sale

  • Apr. 2nd, 2009 at 7:40 PM
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Well, today I did some spring cleaning in my wardrobe, and I found ten items to sell. Check them out here:

Clothing Sale


As usual, shipping prices will only be what it costs me to mail the item(s) to you.

God's love.

  • Mar. 21st, 2009 at 12:04 AM
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The love of God gives grace a thousandfold more than human actions deserve.  If you give Him the merest mite, He will pay you back with gold.  If you but purpose to go to the Father, He will come out to meet you.  You say but a word, short and unfeeling--"Receive me, have mercy on me"--and He falls on your neck and kisses you.  That is what the love of the heavenly Father is like toward us, unworthy as we are.  And simply because of this love He rejoices in every gesture we make toward salvation, however small. . . . St. John Chrysostom asserts this.  "No good of any sort," he says, "however trifling it may be, will be scorned by the righteous judge.  If sins are searched out in such detail that we shall give an answer for the words and desires and thoughts, then so much the more good deeds, however small they are, will be taken into account in all detail, and will be reckoned to our merit before our judge, who is full of love."


--from The Way of a PIlgrim and The Pilgrim Continues His Way
 

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Anonymous Comments Post

  • Mar. 10th, 2009 at 1:34 PM
tea party
I've never done one of these before (that I can recall!), but I thought it would be fun. moredetailsJessica has an anonymous comments post that's been going for ages now, but it has sort of taken on a life of its own, and I thought it could be nice to do another one for encouraging comments about friends--although you can comment about anything you like, really.

Feel free to advertise this on your journal. The more, the merrier!

EDIT: Okay, let's keep the comments more positive, folks. :-)  I reserve the right to screen or delete comments as I see fit and to freeze comments on certain threads.

Feb. 26th, 2009

  • 10:23 PM
theotokos
"Every minute God forgives us, we should forgive one another. This is the greatest virtue, if you say: My God forgive my brother for whatever he did to me."
St. Anthimos of Chios

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McLaughlin

  • Feb. 4th, 2009 at 9:31 PM
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I thought when I married Jason that I wouldn't have to worry about people mispelling and mispronouncing my last name anymore. McLaughlin is easier than Companik, right? Well, I was wrong. Seriously, almost everyone either misspells or misprounounces "McLaughlin"! I thought this was a no-brainer.

How do you think we pronounce our last name? I'll give you one hint: it is not pronounced MacLaughlin. *grimace*

Speaking of Sola Scriptura.

  • Jan. 17th, 2009 at 12:39 AM
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Our priest Father John Whiteford was interviewed yesterday on the show "The Illumined Heart" which is broadcast on Ancient Faith Radio. You can listen to the podcast here: Speaking of Sola Scriptura.

I haven't written much of anything on LiveJournal regarding my reasons for leaving Protestantism and joining the Orthodox Church. If you listen to this podcast, you will get a summary of the very issue that first confronted and overwhelmed me. Fr. John is very clear and concise, and I think this is an excellent introduction for anyone interested in understanding the Orthodox view of Scripture and Tradition. Besides, isn't it kind of cool that you can hear my priest's voice online? heheh

Okay. Bed time. Goodnight!

Shirts for sale.

  • Jan. 15th, 2009 at 2:55 PM
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I sold the skirt, but I still need to sell the two shirts. I have lowered the prices on each.


Next Era Couture green shirt; size medium (juniors); $3 (Hardly been worn.)  SOLD



Weavers grey shirt; size medium (juniors); $3 (Brand new; never been worn.) SOLD

Shipping charges will only be what it actually costs me to send it to you.

Cloth pads for sale!

  • Jan. 15th, 2009 at 12:00 PM
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I know a lot of you are familiar with the various types of cloth menstrual pads and pantiliners that are being made and sold these days. If you are not familiar with them and with their environmental and health benefits, I encourage you to read this informative page on Wikipedia.

Several months ago my sister Emily and I began making some, but only recently did we actually finish them. We want to make them for ourselves (and our mom), but we're also interested in starting a little business selling them (and who knows what else--we haven't decided yet!). The thing is, we want to make the best ones we can, and we think our current style needs some fine tuning.

What we are going to do is sell our current stock (34 28 24 18 16 11 pantiliners) at a greatly reduced price and ask our buyers to tell us what they like and what they think could be improved. Then we will make more pantiliners and move on to making thicker menstrual pads and perhaps some post-partum pads.

Here are the two styles of pantiliners we are currently selling:



These liners are made from 100% cotton (printed fabrics) and 100% cotton flannel (plain fabric). You will get four layers of fabric to absorb flow, so not only are these good for everyday vaginal fluids, but they also work for very light menstrul flow and for tampon/menstrual cup backup.

We are selling each pad for $1. This is a great price since cloth pads are usually sold at $5-$10 each. Shipping prices will be at actual cost.

Edit: Only 11 left now, so hurry before they're gone! :-)

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Love.

  • Oct. 22nd, 2008 at 1:24 PM
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The Lord taught me to love my enemies. Without the grace of God we cannot love our enemies. Only the Holy Spirit teaches love, and then even devils arouse our pity because they have fallen from good, and lost humility in God. I beseech you, put this to the test. When a man affronts you or brings dishonor on your head, or takes what is yours, or persecutes the Church, pray to the Lord, saying: “O Lord, we are all Thy creatures. Have pity on Thy servants and turn their hearts to repentance,” and you will be aware of grace in your soul. To begin with, constrain your heart to love enemies, and the Lord, seeing your good will, will help you in all things, and experience itself will show you the way. But the man who thinks with malice of his enemies has not God’s love within him, and does not know God. If you will pray for your enemies, peace will come to you; but when you can love your enemies--know that a great measure of the grace of God dwells in you, though I do not say perfect grace as yet, but sufficient for salvation. Whereas if you revile your enemies, it means there is an evil spirit living in you and bringing evil thoughts into your heart, for, in the words of the Lord, out of the heart proceed evil thoughts--or good thoughts.
St. Silouan the Athonite

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P.S.

  • Aug. 30th, 2008 at 10:29 AM
theotokos
I know this is out of the blue, but I've been thinking about a lot of things lately, and I want to say something.

If I have ever said or done something unkind to you, I am truly sorry.  If you have seen me say or do anything arrogant, insensitive, or in any way wrong to anyone, I ask forgiveness.  I seem to be ever more painfully and keenly aware of my shortcomings, and I want everyone to know that I'm sorry and that I am trying to do better.

Also, if anything I've done to you is bothering you, please tell me so that I can make it right or at least so that we can come to a better understanding of each other.  I truly want to "seek peace and pursue it."  Drop me an e-mail or leave me a comment on this entry (comments are screened). 

Flip flops.

  • Jul. 30th, 2008 at 9:23 AM
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Poll #1232203
Open to: All, detailed results viewable to: All, participants: 37

Do you wear flip flops? (Weather permitting.)

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Never
3 (8.1%)

Occasionally
14 (37.8%)

Often
6 (16.2%)

All the time
14 (37.8%)

What types do you wear?

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The cheap, rubber kind.
21 (56.8%)

Slightly nicer ones that have fabric or leather.
27 (73.0%)

More expensive ones with real soles, beading or other decorations.
14 (37.8%)

I never wear any.
3 (8.1%)

Where do you think it's appropriate to wear flip flops?

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the beach or pool
35 (97.2%)

around the house
34 (94.4%)

running errands
33 (91.7%)

at a casual restaurant (like Chili's)
30 (83.3%)

at a nicer restaurant
5 (13.9%)

friends' house for dinner
29 (80.6%)

church
15 (41.7%)

office
11 (30.6%)

NOWHERE
0 (0.0%)

What do you think of guys wearing flip flops?

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It looks pansy.
0 (0.0%)

I don't like it.
4 (10.8%)

It's okay. Whatever.
24 (64.9%)

I like it.
9 (24.3%)

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Feb. 11th, 2008

  • 10:36 PM
wide-eyed girl
I went ahead and made a small cut to my Friends List, and I just want to say that I think you are all wonderful people and I've enjoyed knowing you. Thanks so much for sharing a piece of your thoughts and your life with me! I don't post publicly often, but feel free to read those entries of mine that are public, and if we're Facebook friends, I'm more than happy to keep it so. God bless you, every one. :-)

Jan. 29th, 2008

  • 10:11 AM
wide-eyed girl
One of my favorite pieces ever, I think: Don Peris's arrangment of a "Pavane" by Maurice Ravel. (It's not quite the whole track; they cut off the last 15 seconds.)

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I stumbled across something this morning that seems to fit perfectly into what I've been encouraged to do and what I think I will slowly start doing--namely, explain what led me into the Orthodox Church.

In our conversations with some of our acquaintances about the Orthodox Church, a common criticism and theme seemed to be, "The countries which are largely Orthodox in their religion are immoral/depressing/failing, etc."  Russia in particular was heavily criticized.  The following is a comment I found on a blog, and it is a response to a Catholic who leveled just such objections at Russian Orthodoxy.  I know it's rather lengthy, but I'm not going to put it behind a cut.  Forgive me. ;-)

Dear Bioactiv-Man,

I am, perhaps, uniquely suited among the readers of this blog to answer some of the points that you raised, concerning evangelism, church attendance, and abortion rates among the Orthodox.

I just returned less than two months ago from serving as a missionary of the Orthodox Church at an orphanage for disabled children in east-central Ukraine. While I was living there, I attended the nearest parish to me.

I've also lived for four months in Moscow, attending a normal parish of the Russian Church. I speak Russian and Ukrainian, and I've studied in depth the history and culture of Russia and the Soviet Union, both from a secular and a religious point of view.

As such, I can answer your points with my own first and knowledge and experience, as opposed to with theories that may not have a basis in fact.

Your charges, while commonly made, are unfounded, in my experience. In making them, I think you fail to take into account the seriousness of the toll that the Soviet period, a period of martyrdom and persecution to an extent greater than at any time before in Church history, had on the Russian Church and the people.

During a five year period alone during Stalinism, the number of bishops in the Russian Church went from 184 to 7, as many bishops were executed by firing squads or sent off to forced labor concentration camps. Similarly, 40,000 priests were killed, and countless multitudes of monastics and lay people were also given the choice between their lives and their Lord. The Church was destroyed almost entirely. I've gone to liturgy at a monastery where less than 80 years before, the bishop was murdered by the communists at the gates of the monastery.

You cite the high rates of abortion as if this were proof that Orthodoxy can't be what it claims to be. However, what you don't mention is that it was the Soviets who legalized abortion and officially encouraged it. If you go to http://www.johnstonsarchive.net/policy/abortion/index.html and look at the historical data for Russia and the Soviet Union, you'll see that the numbers are indeed tragically high, and that they rise steadily throughout the whole Soviet Union. This was very much during a time of suppression of the Church.

However, if you look after 1991, you'll notice that since then, the number of abortions, while still really high, has gone down by more than half. It takes time to change hearts. But the Church is working hard to do just that. While I've lived in Russia and the Ukraine, I've seen parishes distribute pro-life literature free of charge. I've seen priests preach forcefully against abortion. I've seen monks on street corners passing out pro-life information. I've also seen ordinary believers talking to their friends and coworkers about abortion, trying to give them other options and offer them support for keeping the child.

In a society where the atheistic authorities promoted abortion as a form of women's liberation, and where many women had a dozen or more abortions, do you expect things to change overnight? Afterall, it took 300 years for the Faith to win over the Roman Empire.

While not excusing the high abortion rates, I thank God that we've been able to lower them by over half in 15 years.

In terms of low Church attendance rates, you're right -- that isn't good. It might, however, be understandable in societies where, for 75 years, people were taught in school that belief in God was a sign of mental illness, and children were encouraged to report their parents for praying at home, in which cases the parents were often sent off to labor-camps. Even as recently as the 1980s, during the thaw of perestroika, a friend of mine from Ukraine, who was in school at the time, was made to take part in atheistic teaching workshops at schools. They would go from school to school and put on plays where they would mock God and throw rocks at icons of Christ and the Virgin Mary, saying that if there was a God, He would stop them.

(By the way, God did stop my friend, but not in the way that he expected Him to. Instead, God changed his heart. My friend is now a priestmonk and will be made a bishop in the spring. Truly, God desires not the death of a sinner.)

So yes, Church attendance rates in post-Communist societies are not great. They are getting better, though.

What, if I may ask, is the excuse in Catholic Europe, where there has been no such persecution? Why are the Church attendance rates low and falling there, where people have always been free to practice their faith? (http://www.usatoday.com/news/opinion/editorials/2006-01-08-faith-edit_x.htm)

I've also lived for four months in Spain, and I rarely saw anyone under the age of 65 at a Catholic mass.

Europe has become post-Christian without the need of any prolonged persecution to make it that way.

In terms of evangelism, where have you been looking? Were you expecting to see large numbers of missionaries coming from Soviet Russia, or Ottoman Greece? And yet, despite persecutions, there have always been missionaries in the Orthodox Church, including to Africa and Asia. St. Stephen of Perm, St. Macarius, St. Herman, St. Innocent, Sts. Cyril and Methodius, Archbishop Anastasios, St. Nicholas of Japan, Fr. Cosmas of Zaire, etc.

In my own personal experience and missionary work, I have been blessed to meet a lot of people working hard to spread the Gospel. While in Ukraine, I was introduced to a local Orthodox student group. The members of the group are active in visiting prisons, orphanages, children's cancer wards, etc. A friend of mine, Yuri, visits a local prison once every week or two to spend time with the prisoners and share the Gospel with them. Over the past couple years, he has seen many of them come to faith, and the prisoners have now, with their own hands, built a chapel in the prison. Yuri may soon be ordained to the priesthood to serve the prisoners.

Another friend of mine is part of a Ukraine-wide organization of Orthodox volunteers visiting children's cancer wards, to comfort those suffering from the after affects of Chernobyl. Several times a week, she goes and spends time with dying children and their parents, brings a priest to give them communion, prays with them, and comforts them, and also from her own small student's budget tries to buy some necessary supplies for the children that the hospital cannot afford, thereby showing the Gospel to these suffering children and their parents.

Here in America, many of my close friends have been on mission trips to different countries around the world, including Africa and Central America, helping to teach, build Churches, and visit the poor and orphans.

So, while I can understand you believing what you've been told, believe me -- It isn't accurate :-)

In Christ,
John Hogg

12/23/2007 3:14 PM